WASHINGTON, D.C. – In a startling move, Beverly Lahaye, founder
and president of conservative political action group Concerned Women for
America (CWA), has announced that her organization will start a multi-pronged
campaign aimed at promoting abstinence after marriage.
"With divorce rates in the church climbing even higher than those
in society at large, we just felt we needed a whole new approach,"
Lahaye told THO in an exclusive interview. "We did a thorough study
of what was going on in the good marriages of our members and the answer
invariably came back: no sex."
Lahaye also filled THO in on CWA's plans to lobby the US Education
Department to include teaching about post-marriage abstinence in health
classrooms around the country. The group also has plans to launch a multi-million
dollar, nation-wide print and broadcast marketing campaign using the slogan
"Why Stop Waiting?" and starring actor Kirk Cameron.
"I think this is a really great idea, and I'm honored to
be involved with it," Cameron said. "I already have five kids,
and believe me I don't want to take any chances on making any more."
Lahaye says the new approach is a logical next step in what CWA has been
doing over the years.
"This really gives us a good amount of consistency in what we're
all about," Lahaye said. "For years we've been telling
young people not to have casual sex for pleasure before marriage, and
now we're telling them not to have that kind of casual sex ever.
It really makes a lot of sense when you think about it."
The only acceptable sex under CWA's new policy is "sexual
relations within the boundaries of holy matrimony for the explicit purpose
of procreation."
"Of course we're allowing for that," Lahaye said. "We
don't want to be unreasonable, but we're going to encourage
people to try not to enjoy it at all."
The reaction from other leaders in the conservative, pro-family movement
has been hesitant.
"I'm going to have to take a good hard look at what CWA is
doing here, because it's decidedly contrary to what we've
been hammering home for a long, long time," said Focus on the Family
Founder and President Dr. James Dobson. "We've always taught
that a healthy sex life is critical to a strong marriage, but come to
think of it that's not really working, is it?"
"While this may work for some, I'm not convinced that it's
a good idea to push for it across the board," said Dennis Rainey,
executive director of Family Life Ministries, a division of Campus Crusade
for Christ. "We certainly take anything that CWA does seriously,
but I don't know if I'm ready to give up my date night just
yet."
Leaders in the socially progressive community seemed almost confused
by the move.
"In a way I guess it's a good thing," said a perplexed
National Organization for Women President Kim Gandy. "This pretty
much completes the decades-long process of completely polarizing the views
of our respective organizations on the issue of sex."
For her part, Lahaye is not totally convinced that the abstinence after
marriage movement will make a major impact, but with families crumbling
across the social spectrum, she and others at CWA simply felt it was time
to make a major play.
"If it doesn't work it doesn't work," Lahaye
said. "We figure it can't really make things any worse, and
when we finally decided that we needed to do something big, we figured
why not push for something that we're all doing anyway."
"Why Stop Waiting?" ads are slated to begin running in top
ten markets beginning this summer.
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